tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-79425356283094136002024-03-13T19:33:35.884-04:00A Feather FancyAshleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09319607131924747506noreply@blogger.comBlogger32125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942535628309413600.post-72171850811184899272012-01-12T23:40:00.001-05:002012-01-12T23:47:36.552-05:00Six years ago...<!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:worddocument> <w:view>Normal</w:View> <w:zoom>0</w:Zoom> <w:trackmoves/> <w:trackformatting/> <w:punctuationkerning/> <w:validateagainstschemas/> <w:saveifxmlinvalid>false</w:SaveIfXMLInvalid> <w:ignoremixedcontent>false</w:IgnoreMixedContent> <w:alwaysshowplaceholdertext>false</w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText> <w:donotpromoteqf/> <w:lidthemeother>EN-US</w:LidThemeOther> <w:lidthemeasian>X-NONE</w:LidThemeAsian> <w:lidthemecomplexscript>X-NONE</w:LidThemeComplexScript> <w:compatibility> <w:breakwrappedtables/> <w:snaptogridincell/> <w:wraptextwithpunct/> <w:useasianbreakrules/> <w:dontgrowautofit/> <w:splitpgbreakandparamark/> 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mso-style-qformat:yes; mso-style-parent:""; mso-padding-alt:0in 5.4pt 0in 5.4pt; mso-para-margin-top:0in; mso-para-margin-right:0in; mso-para-margin-bottom:10.0pt; mso-para-margin-left:0in; line-height:115%; mso-pagination:widow-orphan; font-size:11.0pt; font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif"; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;} </style> <![endif]--> <p class="MsoNormal">Yesterday marked six years since my younger brother’s death on January 11, 2006.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>I have never been one to post things on Facebook on certain days of the year.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>I prefer to keep those things close to my heart.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Honestly, those certain days don’t hold any uncommon emotions for me.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>I miss Ben every day, not just that one.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>And I miss him at random times, not necessarily the times in which I am ‘supposed’ to miss him.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal">Before I write any more, please understand that this post is not a knock on anyone who publishes their thoughts about Ben or other loved ones that have passed away.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>I truly appreciate those who posted things about him, both yesterday and at other times as well.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>It’s wonderful to know that people still think about him.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>He made an impact on a lot of people in his short life here on earth.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>I just feel an overwhelming prompting to share my thoughts with you tonight.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal">If you know me, you know that I am a pretty private person.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>I’m not typically loud and, most of the time, I try to not draw attention to myself.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>I treasure time alone.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>That’s just who I am.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Ben was the exact opposite.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>He was always the loud one.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>He thrived in front of crowds.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>People were drawn to him.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>All he had to do was walk into a room and people flocked to his side.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>I think Ben got all of the extroverted genes in our family.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Mom must have saved her social butterfly genes for him because I don’t think I got any of them. </p> <p class="MsoNormal">Okay, side story finished.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Back to the purpose of this post. </p> <p class="MsoNormal">This year, I have been thinking a lot about Ben and his death in particular.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>When I think about it, I don’t feel sad.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>That would be the logical emotion.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Instead, I am absolutely overcome with gratitude to my God.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>There are a lot of reasons for this emotion, a few of which I will explain: </p> <p class="MsoNormal">1.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>God was glorified through Ben’s life.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Ben was a person who truly sought the Lord.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>He wanted to glorify Him in everything he did.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Sure, he messed up.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>We all do.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>But his heart’s desire was to make much of Christ and he did that while he was here on earth.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal">2.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>God was glorified (and is being glorified) through Ben’s death.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Through this tragedy, God has changed the course of lives.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>I have heard stories from people whose lives have been deeply affected by his death and they tell me how God has drawn them closer to Himself as a result of that situation.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>And I speak for myself and tell you that He definitely changed the course of mine.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>My life is entirely different now than it was six years ago.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>I never wanted to go to seminary.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Guess what? <span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>I’m in seminary.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>I never thought I would be preparing to move to another country for a long-term mission trip.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Yep, you guessed it.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>That’s what I’m doing (and that alone deserves an entirely different post).<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal">3.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>God works all things together for our good and His glory. <span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>God is sovereign.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>While we may not understand why things happen, we can rest in the fact that He is in control.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>He holds all the details of the world in His hands, even down to the number of hairs on our heads, and orchestrates them all perfectly.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>He has our very best interests in mind.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>And, by the way, our very best interests are what will give Him the most glory!<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>God knows us intimately and He wants a relationship with us.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>That’s why He sent Jesus!<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Jesus Christ became the sacrifice for our sins on the cross so that we may be restored and reconciled to Him.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>I don’t fully understand why Ben passed away at age 22, but I have faith that God knows the reasons.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>He is working everything together.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal">Do you know what I think Ben would say if we were to ask him about his death?<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>He would say that it was worth it!<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>It was worth his life for God to be glorified.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal">If anything, January 11 is a day of celebration.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Ben is not dead.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>He is HOME!<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>He is right where he wants to be.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>He doesn’t want to be back here.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>He is with his Creator, the God of the universe, the One he adored while he was here on earth and the One he worships now with all that he is.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal">We will always selfishly miss Ben while we are on earth.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>But I know that there will be a sweet reunion one day!<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>A reunion unlike anything I can imagine.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>And I will do with Ben what I am unable to do with him in the flesh right now…worship!<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>We will be able to worship our God together for all eternity along with every tribe, tongue, and nation!<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal">If that doesn’t make you grateful, I don’t know what will! </p>Ashleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09319607131924747506noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942535628309413600.post-38201064897819493352011-04-14T07:30:00.001-04:002011-04-14T07:30:05.118-04:00Color BookAs I mentioned earlier, my friend's daughter, Izzy, turned one this past weekend. Izzy is so sweet and just has the sweetest smile and cheery disposition, so I wanted to make her something special. The funny thing about all my friends having children is that I feel like I have about a hundred nieces and nephews! It's wonderful! Anyway, back to the task at hand. I looked around on different blogs and came up with my version of a color book. Here it is!<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhriTDI8OnF7IcQ1u0u6ZckFmmNYyKHxuwLZMVYxWBXF9AiG3obyRqrXnJ_tYVJfNR3lAJ_jNxvu1CMcvviEvWb-ymILj3443NPNw3kZxof-xl0Aq0Y4prVj2Z1-kJfIK48iPGQ43r_/s1600/color+book1.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhriTDI8OnF7IcQ1u0u6ZckFmmNYyKHxuwLZMVYxWBXF9AiG3obyRqrXnJ_tYVJfNR3lAJ_jNxvu1CMcvviEvWb-ymILj3443NPNw3kZxof-xl0Aq0Y4prVj2Z1-kJfIK48iPGQ43r_/s400/color+book1.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5594507645821687778" border="0" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjOgYkkSy-S-yONx0P6wEzGf8dwOw9PL4mIFdwtpTr4tc6Z7Z0y9Q2sm5gTx-Lb6A1EMueZe1X2X-BXp1X6gKVZE9id3AawhriJf3Dft1qISO2OlzH9ERDnO85ZS5j6BPQ4XsDrqj1L/s1600/color+book2.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjOgYkkSy-S-yONx0P6wEzGf8dwOw9PL4mIFdwtpTr4tc6Z7Z0y9Q2sm5gTx-Lb6A1EMueZe1X2X-BXp1X6gKVZE9id3AawhriJf3Dft1qISO2OlzH9ERDnO85ZS5j6BPQ4XsDrqj1L/s400/color+book2.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5594507648019011234" border="0" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgWx7zcZx9yl5UADpZEyRvq1NFQSHh3FfS5W3UAFJjzXI1QDgmAiiJs7DdQrTIYqUV2eZ1tWKZD0YrLtlSFxB4NM1DvR9wB9EDo1663DSKKVbU36VwM7qAjcqIFts3eRLv8tRbdi04M/s1600/color+book3.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgWx7zcZx9yl5UADpZEyRvq1NFQSHh3FfS5W3UAFJjzXI1QDgmAiiJs7DdQrTIYqUV2eZ1tWKZD0YrLtlSFxB4NM1DvR9wB9EDo1663DSKKVbU36VwM7qAjcqIFts3eRLv8tRbdi04M/s400/color+book3.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5594507641980895570" border="0" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi4lwIVQqWwM69B7V4AcDBQBOpIJtUrWbQ8YlGHnfGUxwy7oAxjAQULivnYy7Ev84KMkRUJU0jfyCM6xs2YNJzTha5FisZtW-iOeMr67QDRWX9kz3rTrvagdlriGGd4FJAmktewyJsX/s1600/color+book4.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi4lwIVQqWwM69B7V4AcDBQBOpIJtUrWbQ8YlGHnfGUxwy7oAxjAQULivnYy7Ev84KMkRUJU0jfyCM6xs2YNJzTha5FisZtW-iOeMr67QDRWX9kz3rTrvagdlriGGd4FJAmktewyJsX/s400/color+book4.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5594507639974996754" border="0" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjtDh_LBGukcu27yeBn4Cm_WldyVRBhvsjsBzoJs1oBANOKhPTZmg6T8EbaUF4Sr6DM7CDMUnePWDpZLyLY6hsASjYXMsEpEwKgL_l8S4Jy-ndmo798kIB32XW4e3exEgGwiFhzLkgI/s1600/color+book5.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjtDh_LBGukcu27yeBn4Cm_WldyVRBhvsjsBzoJs1oBANOKhPTZmg6T8EbaUF4Sr6DM7CDMUnePWDpZLyLY6hsASjYXMsEpEwKgL_l8S4Jy-ndmo798kIB32XW4e3exEgGwiFhzLkgI/s400/color+book5.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5594507328620279794" border="0" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgOj11-jK-Hwk7I180REc6fx4mfspJXmRt3pk0rIMOhyPlN9SioQQrfswJIgSq4OjswTG9VpTUUXzEhuzwEqZKpuUqlmSJaAmkXAUvHguqEBU9rmRRXwz-sEshQHcJTCgudTRTeEpxR/s1600/color+book6.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgOj11-jK-Hwk7I180REc6fx4mfspJXmRt3pk0rIMOhyPlN9SioQQrfswJIgSq4OjswTG9VpTUUXzEhuzwEqZKpuUqlmSJaAmkXAUvHguqEBU9rmRRXwz-sEshQHcJTCgudTRTeEpxR/s400/color+book6.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5594507328841619634" border="0" /></a><br />I used different fabrics and textures for the book to add some interest for Izzy. I used different fabrics and ribbon and sewed each onto pieces of felt while leaving the raw edges of the fabric showing. Then, I sewed the pages together to hide the back of the felt pages and connected them together with binder rings. The book is probably around 6x8 inches or something like that. Izzy seemed to like it when she opened it up, so that is a bonus! I hope you like it too!Ashleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09319607131924747506noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942535628309413600.post-36881649276875041062011-04-12T07:11:00.000-04:002011-04-12T07:11:00.501-04:00Birthday Party Game<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi4gKex9cmMIDHwHPNJni03Pmn6vsZ6ceImyfgy4kSDkf8ZBSDb4VdzuH7KEHZPQFcN0m1RvR7KxHbhGp2VkmtX1taNKGHPjMdeYC6DvqMo7aXZKFgJTUXjwgKUXoCC7CeN1Fkghd3i/s1600/monkey1.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi4gKex9cmMIDHwHPNJni03Pmn6vsZ6ceImyfgy4kSDkf8ZBSDb4VdzuH7KEHZPQFcN0m1RvR7KxHbhGp2VkmtX1taNKGHPjMdeYC6DvqMo7aXZKFgJTUXjwgKUXoCC7CeN1Fkghd3i/s400/monkey1.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5594502227301912978" border="0" /></a><br />My friend at church has a daughter, Izzy, who turned one this past weekend (ps-I think that all my friends' babies should remain in the baby stage until I have them so my children will have playmates! ha!). She had a wonderful party with a monkey theme and Lindsay, my friend, asked me to make a pin the tail on the monkey game for the party. We looked at her invitations and all it showed was the monkey's head. So, instead of making up a body for the monkey and trying to make it look right, we decided to play "Pin the Flower on the Monkey". You can see the invitation in the picture above. I drew the monkey as close to the invitation as I could and then used a template to make all of the game flowers uniform in size and shape. I think it turned out pretty cute. Lindsay liked it too, which is all that really matters!<br /><br />Check back later for my homemade gift to Miss Izzy.Ashleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09319607131924747506noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942535628309413600.post-45884123054278002532011-04-08T07:11:00.000-04:002011-04-08T07:11:00.954-04:00My Sewing Project: A Car Mat!I'm so excited to finally show you my fun sewing project from a few weeks ago! I have some sweet friends from college who recently adopted their first child from Ukraine. Their son is so adorable! I wanted to make him something special that he could use both now and in the future. I decided to try my hand at a toy car mat. <br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhZRTwfAw2gnBUVi0qGDqSERb2MqI2d6fzY0MXmg3rQ0qaTQOhLnI1r2eFMR0kD0wXC11NfulALMrHgZKYrDbkG89nWXpBYSM7KTciklSa1Mco236ZGvA95NMZVdHJNykqsNh0PdTuu/s1600/car+mat1.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhZRTwfAw2gnBUVi0qGDqSERb2MqI2d6fzY0MXmg3rQ0qaTQOhLnI1r2eFMR0kD0wXC11NfulALMrHgZKYrDbkG89nWXpBYSM7KTciklSa1Mco236ZGvA95NMZVdHJNykqsNh0PdTuu/s400/car+mat1.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5593016134736675506" border="0" /></a><br />I saw some on various blogs, but they all just had one straight stretch of road. I wanted my car mat to have a little more action, so here is what I camp up with:<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEholGCpW6UFetfkxT7GODhLOJZBDmUCFyHt9Q67j_bSVOIY8g-g5TkqvPlgwfmTIwFWLnEE9cOOelsl1tMcLHVbU_eT4T5mE9F-6GVG0AgBB2tryC4bG_FrPUvm6T6fLYcDL5ukRJgm/s1600/car+mat2.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEholGCpW6UFetfkxT7GODhLOJZBDmUCFyHt9Q67j_bSVOIY8g-g5TkqvPlgwfmTIwFWLnEE9cOOelsl1tMcLHVbU_eT4T5mE9F-6GVG0AgBB2tryC4bG_FrPUvm6T6fLYcDL5ukRJgm/s400/car+mat2.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5593016543085993090" border="0" /></a><br />I'm not really sure why that picture is showing upside down. Anyway, you get the point. I found some cute car fabric at Joann Fabrics and got to work. This mat used a half yard of fabric for each piece. I cut the fabric on the factory fold, so you could potentially get two mats out of one half yard. I didn't even think to take pictures of the process because I don't use a pattern and make things up as I go along. Anyway, I used two pieces of fabric (inner and outer fabric), felt for the interfacing, and gray felt for the road. I drew a pattern of a road on a piece of paper and then cut it out of the gray felt. Then, I laid everything out and sewed it up! The mat has a velcro fastener to keep everything snug. I'm going to make another one soon for someone else who has ordered one, so I will be sure to take pictures again and write up a tutorial for you. I am still just beginning to sew, so if I can do it, anyone can do it! <br /><br />Here are some more pictures of the finished product:<br /><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgFB1Yh2QxMTmAad8DzKWTyIvOBz7gZlQcsGvA28K2ikAdjbxhs3v6TGm78GTP2YuQ_LGUfcA8B8CGHiQPizgu2KtCGX5ihZy3ZIaP-iyq-4ZgkngHWx5BwuHHQyQuiUkZLVnQiEeJ-/s1600/car+mat3.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgFB1Yh2QxMTmAad8DzKWTyIvOBz7gZlQcsGvA28K2ikAdjbxhs3v6TGm78GTP2YuQ_LGUfcA8B8CGHiQPizgu2KtCGX5ihZy3ZIaP-iyq-4ZgkngHWx5BwuHHQyQuiUkZLVnQiEeJ-/s400/car+mat3.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5593015984011577762" border="0" /></a>The cars in their homes...<br /></div><br /><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEilxchr8NyLRfUp8NwRUfK14VKIjpM-fiaR3E279RH_XC3XWdrlU5MVL_tQ_lIzwqv-FWehkKtzqrOLxtOSzrOo73GVv8JjeImCNw8ZlfxelL7Js9TLWnHLl8_VlFEIlzQfHAW2yJlf/s1600/car+mat4.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEilxchr8NyLRfUp8NwRUfK14VKIjpM-fiaR3E279RH_XC3XWdrlU5MVL_tQ_lIzwqv-FWehkKtzqrOLxtOSzrOo73GVv8JjeImCNw8ZlfxelL7Js9TLWnHLl8_VlFEIlzQfHAW2yJlf/s400/car+mat4.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5593015979444384274" border="0" /></a>And on the track!<br /><br /><br /></div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi4foNRbMuuU3f4psEppakgdoF_TvdgveHDjX_wmPLrIsB_TGlqtt011HmU6kK8ddQlqcAWkLBviprW9sMw5LJffAN1rNU7LbRIOIscmE6RFqUZ4MD6URfX77w0De8ujA5Nc7JOwPgl/s1600/car+mat5.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi4foNRbMuuU3f4psEppakgdoF_TvdgveHDjX_wmPLrIsB_TGlqtt011HmU6kK8ddQlqcAWkLBviprW9sMw5LJffAN1rNU7LbRIOIscmE6RFqUZ4MD6URfX77w0De8ujA5Nc7JOwPgl/s400/car+mat5.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5593015973357253954" border="0" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg4N8jdMApLlNZZ3zdGMEw75aiaPCeQVmqJDu2tGqcCrDZaujRxxrOn0JKt0RW00wIUclbkq8GuI1fHswW5bqfDFiLMrH7dPdgQ_3J5P-p_xh49e5Hh1A6pHtIDlU_yWx4Mc59jeQn5/s1600/car+mat6.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg4N8jdMApLlNZZ3zdGMEw75aiaPCeQVmqJDu2tGqcCrDZaujRxxrOn0JKt0RW00wIUclbkq8GuI1fHswW5bqfDFiLMrH7dPdgQ_3J5P-p_xh49e5Hh1A6pHtIDlU_yWx4Mc59jeQn5/s400/car+mat6.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5593015969822736130" border="0" /></a><br />The best part about it is the mat folds up so the cars can always stay with it! I think it would be great to use as a quiet toy to keep little ones occupied during meetings and other times where they don't need to be running around acting wild and crazy. I really hope that my friends' son likes his gift. Welcome home Artem!Ashleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09319607131924747506noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942535628309413600.post-69769181668196837822011-04-07T22:07:00.004-04:002011-04-07T22:18:00.075-04:00Giveaway WINNER!!I am so excited! A Feather Fancy made it to 25 followers and now I can give something away! The lucky winner chosen by random.org is:<br /><br />SANDRA!<br /><br />Sandra is one of my sweet friends who used to be the Children's Minister at my church, but then moved south to Georgia almost two years ago (I think). I'm so excited to find out that Sandra won because she is currently celebrating her one year blogiversary! She is giving away some fun items this week. Check out her blog, <a href="http://www.thegirlnamedtennessee.blogspot.com/">the girl named tennessee</a>. Now she gets something in return! Sandra, I think I will surprise you with your homemade gift...I already have some fun ideas for you. Yay!Ashleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09319607131924747506noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942535628309413600.post-62017935372344366362011-04-07T07:36:00.000-04:002011-04-07T07:36:00.954-04:00NCAA Tournament PartyI had to share this really cute idea with you! I work at a church office and this year we had a bracket challenge for the Men's NCAA Basketball Tournament. It was so fun and the winner was promised a fun prize! I wanted to have an awards ceremony after the tournament ended, but I couldn't figure out what prize I was going to give out. I thought about it for weeks and couldn't come up with anything creative at all. There were 10 people who participated in the challenge and before the final game, all of our brackets were busted but there were four ties among our group of participants. It all came down to the final score of the championship game. The winner got a bucket of popcorn (which was perfect for him since he eats popcorn in the office all the time), the person with the worst score got a Zero bar (thanks to a suggestion from a sweet friend), and we drew two names and gave away Nerf basketball hoops to the winners of the drawing. It was so fun!!<br /><br />My favorite part of the "ceremony" was the treat portion of the afternoon. My mom had a fabulous idea to make red velvet cupcakes and color the batter according to the favorite teams of each participant. Here is the end result of our efforts:<br /><br /><br />Blue Velvet for UK:<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhB_y1-WGA9DgnK4qiD7P1_ZbLG6PJAshnMuDHhqpePpfXD1vKy0MywOPfkkFOhovScjcEa5o0op9A76-zOvI5QJurfbHXensFf12_z35SpBxwXAyzA9chyphenhyphenB_7xfqlhk4bX_i1HydIr/s1600/ncaa+cupcakes2.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhB_y1-WGA9DgnK4qiD7P1_ZbLG6PJAshnMuDHhqpePpfXD1vKy0MywOPfkkFOhovScjcEa5o0op9A76-zOvI5QJurfbHXensFf12_z35SpBxwXAyzA9chyphenhyphenB_7xfqlhk4bX_i1HydIr/s400/ncaa+cupcakes2.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5592677787518344594" border="0" /></a><br /><br />Red Velvet for U of L:<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgqAiELBCVDHACYpMNyzTlK24uws7iDHPyagwU2eo2z7yARoti95vPMB8jAAlFu4VZs7BGvO2xtJNqUeOhnrS4fNDTwQqGaG5cwh7Nwayzp0v5uwAD0f3JQfYGh6k5QtxT30Wt1qJbI/s1600/ncaa+cupcakes1.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgqAiELBCVDHACYpMNyzTlK24uws7iDHPyagwU2eo2z7yARoti95vPMB8jAAlFu4VZs7BGvO2xtJNqUeOhnrS4fNDTwQqGaG5cwh7Nwayzp0v5uwAD0f3JQfYGh6k5QtxT30Wt1qJbI/s400/ncaa+cupcakes1.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5592677788991344962" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><br />A combo cupcake for Belmont:<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhhqxnYNVq_gpD0iFjNPvVeyEHscelNCDz0B9v3sh7jqYF5hhdIeaaagevxp4MkhbxxoU885vp9U9cJcRup8o5X8Kj-4M7yjSdMsVN_yB_OZCm6ZUsFygcT6Dlc90gJniWa6HdnDOn0/s1600/ncaa+cupcakes3.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhhqxnYNVq_gpD0iFjNPvVeyEHscelNCDz0B9v3sh7jqYF5hhdIeaaagevxp4MkhbxxoU885vp9U9cJcRup8o5X8Kj-4M7yjSdMsVN_yB_OZCm6ZUsFygcT6Dlc90gJniWa6HdnDOn0/s400/ncaa+cupcakes3.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5592677795727816578" border="0" /></a><br /><br />There was also one unfortunate UNC fan in the crowd, but the North Carolina blue proved to be very hard to get. It ended up being green. I had to apologize in advance for that disaster. I don't think it phased him too much, though. He ate both of his cupcakes with no problem!<br /><br />We topped the cupcakes off with homemade cream cheese icing and basketball themed toppings. I printed each person's team logo out on cardstock and taped it to a lollipop stick for one of the cupcakes and stuck a basketball-shaped Easter egg on top of the other one. <br /><br />Here is one final picture of all the cupcakes:<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgqk3QjLki6kqWAAqRKh4Wkvy5IccoV13XUY1HY6cJLNMrizDfKnwQUArSlbgKAMFLzRHbLQD_4pRpghrRKkyaM8szb80xOqgZVvs3LqXcEhKNUPgfyhT6RWbIz-Dvj4iuFd7Ks4NC1/s1600/ncaa+cupcakes4.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgqk3QjLki6kqWAAqRKh4Wkvy5IccoV13XUY1HY6cJLNMrizDfKnwQUArSlbgKAMFLzRHbLQD_4pRpghrRKkyaM8szb80xOqgZVvs3LqXcEhKNUPgfyhT6RWbIz-Dvj4iuFd7Ks4NC1/s400/ncaa+cupcakes4.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5592677796051551058" border="0" /></a><br />As you can tell, the UK fans outnumbered everyone else (and all is right with the world). :)<br /><br />We are planning to make this bracket challenge an annual event. Do you have an ideas for prizes? It may take me all year to come up with something!Ashleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09319607131924747506noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942535628309413600.post-22530588631694290412011-04-06T22:41:00.003-04:002011-04-06T23:08:18.770-04:00What I'm Learning Wednesday: Silence<span style="font-style: italic;">For God alone</span><sup style="font-style: italic;" class="xref" value="(<a href="#cen-ESV-14829B" title="See cross-reference B">B</a>)"></sup><span style="font-style: italic;"> my soul</span><sup style="font-style: italic;" class="xref" value="(<a href="#cen-ESV-14829C" title="See cross-reference C">C</a>)"></sup><span style="font-style: italic;"> waits in silence;</span><br /><span style="font-style: italic;"> from him comes my salvation. Psalm 62:1</span><br /><br />So, my last "What I'm Learning" post was about God screaming at me (click <a href="http://afeatherfancy.blogspot.com/2011/04/bonus-what-im-learning-sunday-screaming.html">here </a>if you want to read it). This post is about silence. Specifically, my silence. I was reading in, you guessed it, Psalms and this verse immediately made me think of my situation with waiting. Recently, I tend to ultimately do what God asks of me in this area, but argue with Him about it the entire time. I think that I know best and I constantly try to justify what I think I need to God to get Him to get on with it. I mean, God should listen to me, right? Because I am the one who is all-knowing and all-powerful! <br /><br />This verse immediately convicted me of all the times I was "patient" with God while being highly impatient at the same time. That is the epitome of a prideful heart. God knows the desires of my heart and He can choose to honor those desires or not. It is not up to me. I think I know what is best for my life, but really, I don't. I have no idea. God has my very best interests in mind. He has my days laid out. This verse says it all. HE alone is what I need. HE alone is my salvation. All the other stuff doesn't matter. If He is there with me, rooting for me, nothing else compares!Ashleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09319607131924747506noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942535628309413600.post-80589305941327135052011-04-04T07:36:00.003-04:002011-04-04T07:36:00.192-04:00Giveaway! It's Oh So Close!!Don't forget! I only need four more followers before I can give something away! I will draw the name of one of my first 25 followers and make something especially for you! Spread the word to your friends if you like what you see on my blog.Ashleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09319607131924747506noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942535628309413600.post-87364854529848767732011-04-03T13:35:00.004-04:002011-04-03T14:44:24.459-04:00BONUS: What I'm Learning SUNDAY: ScreamingAs I mentioned earlier this week, the Lord has been screaming at me recently. If you know me, you know that the desire of my heart is to be a wife and a mother. You also will know that it has been a loooong time since I last dated anyone. The reason for the long break is because of something I heard God say to me. One day, a few years ago, I was praying about this subject and heard the Lord speak to my heart, saying "just wait". I can't really describe what it was like to hear those two words so clearly, but I definitely did. And I waited. <br /><br />I waited for a long time. Don't get me wrong, I'm thankful that I did. Waiting probably saved me from some bad relationships and some bad choices on my part. However, I became impatient as I tend to do so easily. I wrote about this issue a few weeks ago in another entry on waiting (you can read it <a href="http://afeatherfancy.blogspot.com/2011/03/what-im-learning-wednesday-waiting.html">here</a>). <br /><br />A few weeks ago, I was pleading with the Lord over this area of my life. I seem to have become more and more impatient since I turned 30 in September. Being married has become more of an issue for me...I guess I feel like time is ticking away. That very next week, three people mentioned three different guys to me! I agreed to be set up with one of them. We met for dinner and had a great conversation. He was very nice, a perfect gentleman, and he loves the Lord. After I went home, though, and all day every day for the rest of the week, God dealt with me. I felt like I could hear the Lord just as clearly as I had heard Him before. Only this time, He was screaming at me "I TOLD YOU TO WAIT!" Again, I can't explain what it was like for me to hear this voice in my heart, but I clearly did. I felt like He was telling me that I was trying to rush Him. I tried to brush it off at first, but the screaming only got louder until it was all I could hear. <br /><br />You see, I feel like there is a very specific calling from the Lord on my life. And there is a very special man that will match that calling. If you know me, you know my heart on this issue. <br /><br />I know this may sound crazy to you...it sounds a little crazy to me too. But I truly believe that this is what the Lord was screaming to me for an entire week and a half. So, I have backed off on my constant yearning to find a husband (which is not my job anyway) and will wait for the Lord to bring him to me.<br /><br />I hope you can understand my ramblings on this subject. Lots of things have been running through my head on this matter and I have tried my best to organize them for you. Have you ever heard God speak to you about any particular area in your life?Ashleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09319607131924747506noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942535628309413600.post-11146011510297410572011-04-02T07:43:00.000-04:002011-04-02T07:43:00.268-04:00Wedding CookiesThe wedding cookies are finally finished! I had an order for 400 cookies in the shape of Mississippi for a wedding that took place this past weekend. Let me tell you, that is a LOT of cookies! I'm so pleased, though, with how they turned out. Here they are:<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiCsSsbx7veojQ0e9Q8ouaOcWKyL6xhYUMHVTCScXzZGMv-xIQ3-rXO4T8gUD3gQb0w-Dc11Fh6cwDE0VqYBT4Nwu_v8p4Hx7grD6mBHirKUD1rRvOuSBfeHL6phBvWCSc8yjWTMyRS/s1600/mississippi+cookies.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiCsSsbx7veojQ0e9Q8ouaOcWKyL6xhYUMHVTCScXzZGMv-xIQ3-rXO4T8gUD3gQb0w-Dc11Fh6cwDE0VqYBT4Nwu_v8p4Hx7grD6mBHirKUD1rRvOuSBfeHL6phBvWCSc8yjWTMyRS/s400/mississippi+cookies.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5590082482494555698" border="0" /></a><br />The lighting in this picture does not really give you an accurate picture of the coloring of the icing. The cookies were in the shape of Mississippi and outlined in Ole Miss colors (red and blue) because that is the groom's favorite team. The blue dot at the top of the cookie marks the groom's hometown. My mom had the idea to make a large cookie in order to write out the name of his hometown and the state name. I also added an Ole Miss logo to the large cookie to help identify the color palette.<br /><br />I used a recipe from Bridget at Bake at 350 for lemon cut-out cookies and they tasted really good! I also used the lemon royal icing. You can find the recipe <a href="http://bakeat350.blogspot.com/2010/07/frosted-jumbo-animal-cookies.html">here</a>.<br /><br />Why cookies, you ask? The groom does not like cake and did not want a groom's cake. The bride found this Mississippi cookie cutter and then asked me to do the cookies instead. They were a big hit at the wedding reception, especially among the guests from Mississippi!Ashleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09319607131924747506noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942535628309413600.post-53233040869214422352011-04-01T07:30:00.000-04:002011-04-01T07:30:00.642-04:00Chocolate Marshmallows!This past Monday, the young women at my church got together for our monthly meeting. The theme for the month (so cute) was "Minute to Win It" and we all had to bring a food item that only took us a few minutes to make. I decided to make chocolate dipped marshmallows and they were soooo good! Here is what I did:<br /><br />1. Take some sweetened coconut (you know, like the Baker's brand coconut that you get in the baking aisle...mine was Kroger brand because I liked the smaller flakes) and throw some on a baking pan. Make sure it is in a single layer. Put it in the oven and toast it. I don't really know what temperature you are supposed to toast coconut at, but I set the oven to 300 degrees, put it in there as it was preheating and it was pretty much done as soon as the oven got to the correct temperature. Just keep an eye on it and take it out when it turns light brown.<br /><br />2. Pour some semi-sweet chocolate chips in a bowl and melt in the microwave. I think it took about 1 minute, 45 seconds on 60% power. Stir until smooth.<br /><br />3. Get some jumbo marshmallows and insert some lollipop sticks in one end. Dip the marshmallows halfway in the chocolate and then immediately roll in the toasted coconut. Place on wax paper to set up.<br /><br />This treat was a big hit at the meeting. The instructions make it seem like it takes a lot longer than it actually does. You should try it...I promise that you won't be disappointed. And, the best thing about this treat is that you can make as much or as little as you would like! Here is a picture of the final product:<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgJwzQtLyzgx8YkqpbN8zCwDOc1wkzXAvHCW751ofMW4RZ9n7mZzM_tV694lH6CAt_Ed098UByTTAHgOWFSB_8TyUl2SP_y8R_EC8MV1THTBwuyx2hRg4QB-MSmQYj0iG2eDpXVDagn/s1600/chocolate+marshmallows.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgJwzQtLyzgx8YkqpbN8zCwDOc1wkzXAvHCW751ofMW4RZ9n7mZzM_tV694lH6CAt_Ed098UByTTAHgOWFSB_8TyUl2SP_y8R_EC8MV1THTBwuyx2hRg4QB-MSmQYj0iG2eDpXVDagn/s400/chocolate+marshmallows.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5590081037136603490" border="0" /></a><br />If you decide to try this treat, leave me a comment and let me know how you liked them!Ashleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09319607131924747506noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942535628309413600.post-75668222074457279452011-03-30T22:32:00.003-04:002011-03-30T23:14:09.579-04:00What I'm Learning Wednesday: He is FOR MeI don't even know where to begin telling you all that I am learning right now! It feels like God is screaming at me and whispering in that still, small voice all at the same time. There are so many things going through my head at all times...I can't express everything. <br /><br />Probably the main thing I am learning right now is that God is FOR us. He roots for us. He is on our side. He wants us to pursue Him as He pursues us. He is strong for us, He is faithful to us, He is merciful and gracious to us. He will never leave us no matter how weak we are. I was reading in Psalm 56 and in verse 9 that phrase appears: "This I know, that God is for me." Amidst all the trouble in this world, God is gracious to us. He comforts us in the wake of attacks by our enemies. No matter what happens to us in this life and how beaten down we are by the world, we can take refuge in our great God who is always on our side. <br /><br />I love it when I read a verse and a song comes to my mind! There is a song called "You are for Me" by Kari Jobe (my favorite praise and worship artist) and I sing it over and over. You can listen to the song <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7tCXObtC_fk">here</a>. It's so neat to read the words to worship songs and think about how the Lord could have been working in the lives of the songwriters to inspire the words to songs that come straight from His Word. <br /><br />That's all for now. This writing is mainly about His whispers to me. I may write a bonus "What I'm Learning" entry this week to share more about all the screaming.Ashleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09319607131924747506noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942535628309413600.post-32426673073850151522011-03-16T07:33:00.002-04:002011-03-16T20:59:39.131-04:00What I'm Learning Wednesday: Be StillPsalm 46:10: <span style="font-style: italic;">"Be still, and know that I am God. I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth!"</span><br /><br />The Lord has really been using this verse to get my attention lately. It made an appearance in my devotions this week and I logged on to my friend Kimberly Merida's blog, <a href="http://betheglory.blogspot.com/2011/03/be-still.html">Be the Glory</a>, and it was there too! I don't know about you, but whenever God really wants to get my attention about something, that same thing appears over and over (and over) in my life--in various places that are not at all connected with one another. (I think He does that part on purpose so I will know that He's talking to me!)<br /><br />A lot of the time, I try to control my life. Do you ever do that? I tend to forget that I am not God. That I don't know all the answers. That He does not need to consult me before important changes and decisions take place in my life. Instead, I take matters into my own hands and try to fix things that don't need to be fixed or make things happen that aren't supposed to happen yet. In Psalm 50 (can you tell I've been reading through Psalms?) the Lord says, "If I were hungry, I would not tell you, for the world and its fullness are mine." He doesn't need me at all. <br /><br />I even refer to it as "my" life. It's not. When I asked Jesus to be my Savior, I gave up all rights to this life. It is His to do with as He pleases. Sadly, I didn't let him have control of it for a long time. There are still areas that I struggle to completely hand over to Him. <br /><br />My prayer has been for the Lord to break my pride, to help me to fully realize that my life is not my own, and that He would be truly exalted through it all!Ashleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09319607131924747506noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942535628309413600.post-7908738399285653252011-03-11T07:30:00.000-05:002011-03-11T07:30:01.403-05:00Sewing FunI am working on several sewing projects right now, but I can't share them with you yet because they are gifts...and I know at least one recipient is a follower of this blog! They are super cute, though, and I can't wait to share them with you. More details will come soon!Ashleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09319607131924747506noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942535628309413600.post-79824100912013180232011-03-10T07:55:00.000-05:002011-03-10T07:55:00.311-05:00Quick and Easy Curtain UpdateA few weeks ago, I bought some new curtains for my bedroom. They were the style and color I was looking for, but there was one thing wrong with them--they had copper grommets at the top. This would not be an issue if my furniture didn't have all silver knobs. So instead of leaving them on the shelf at Kohl's, I bought them anyway with a plan. <br /><br />Here is the before picture of the curtains with the copper grommets:<br /><br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjB7_1c69i2NUg8KwvbKHCOC69nBqCpgmdZNkTwcfPGIuvXBScdp5oBCcHqD8F9gWeaWrXukF_laPUEnpWjNNFrT5eySgH3iXhCl2jvxtEr2c9KO2wsrG5gtwk1UCDG5-S2I8C6SYeZ/s1600/curtains1.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjB7_1c69i2NUg8KwvbKHCOC69nBqCpgmdZNkTwcfPGIuvXBScdp5oBCcHqD8F9gWeaWrXukF_laPUEnpWjNNFrT5eySgH3iXhCl2jvxtEr2c9KO2wsrG5gtwk1UCDG5-S2I8C6SYeZ/s400/curtains1.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5582285240660888530" border="0" /></a><br />I got some Folk Art metallic paint (sterling silver) at Walmart and painted the grommets to match the rest of the hardware in my room! It only took a few minutes and was pretty simple to do. It does require a pretty steady hand so you don't get silver paint all over the fabric. I didn't tape off the grommets, but you could definitely do that if you are worried about getting paint everywhere. My new and improved curtains are definitely not perfect and there is a tiny rim of copper all around the grommet, but I figure that people aren't going to be inspecting my bedroom curtains very closely. And if they would like to, I will just pretend that the copper rim is supposed to be there!<br /><br />Here are my curtains after two coats of paint:<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjv9zqoV6rDN_k9zEUQY5umcC2ibMsnpMTaOXV6Z-o-4eHZnYQG3MqrsTFoU6_htsTDpoifAlbW8NoLQWW_Fw8XhgfwVRhubpprQ_KoFKfZxQ6otX_sgwVyvzFggbXmmG8rXyAzZqWk/s1600/curtains2.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjv9zqoV6rDN_k9zEUQY5umcC2ibMsnpMTaOXV6Z-o-4eHZnYQG3MqrsTFoU6_htsTDpoifAlbW8NoLQWW_Fw8XhgfwVRhubpprQ_KoFKfZxQ6otX_sgwVyvzFggbXmmG8rXyAzZqWk/s400/curtains2.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5582285228466184322" border="0" /></a><br />You can barely see the copper rim around it!<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi-ji_IEO6Dva9f_xYBk54Qwff7Ytj6dalS0Xu6Ehu0BHpgPuvgIIc5VaCD6IIbm06cHV0BgGe5rwL1HPLDayZmZevg_9t-go_wf0zeLZTzSqL7vDv9EivA4U297cSYENlL7IvHc_oV/s1600/curtains3.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi-ji_IEO6Dva9f_xYBk54Qwff7Ytj6dalS0Xu6Ehu0BHpgPuvgIIc5VaCD6IIbm06cHV0BgGe5rwL1HPLDayZmZevg_9t-go_wf0zeLZTzSqL7vDv9EivA4U297cSYENlL7IvHc_oV/s400/curtains3.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5582285216924103458" border="0" /></a><br />I think I like the silver grommets better than the copper ones! What do you think?Ashleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09319607131924747506noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942535628309413600.post-81098891771673882862011-03-09T21:48:00.003-05:002011-03-09T22:09:37.813-05:00What I'm Learning Wednesday: A New SongYou know an awesome thing about God? He always knows what's going on. He knows exactly how to bring someone out of a funk! I have been reading Psalms this past week, and one of the first passages I read after writing last week's post was Psalm 40:1-3. I have come back to it over and over. You can read it below:<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">I waited patiently for the L</span><span style="font-variant: small-caps; font-style: italic;">ord</span><span style="font-style: italic;"> to help me,</span><br /><span style="font-style: italic;"> and he turned to me and heard my cry.</span><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">He lifted me out of the pit of despair,</span><br /><span style="font-style: italic;"> out of the mud and the mire.</span><br /><span style="font-style: italic;"> He set my feet on solid ground</span><br /><span style="font-style: italic;"> and steadied me as I walked along.</span><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">He has given me a new song to sing,</span><br /><span style="font-style: italic;"> a hymn of praise to our God.</span><br /><span style="font-style: italic;"> Many will see what he has done and be amazed.</span><br /><span style="font-style: italic;"> They will put their trust in the L</span><span style="font-variant: small-caps; font-style: italic;">ord</span><span style="font-style: italic;">.<br /><br /></span>The Lord has done all those things for me this past week. He hears our cries and lifts us out of our despair. He sets us on solid ground, so that our feet are firmly planted in Him. The one thing that has brought the most amazement to me, though, is that He has given me a new song of praise to sing to Him. I can't begin to tell you how He has used His Word and others to encourage me in my wait over this past week! From emails to words of encouragement out of nowhere! He is truly an amazing God and I will delight in Him as I wait for the man He has set aside for me. My prayer is that others will see how He has worked through my life in this area and that it will encourage them and bring them to a relationship with Him! <span style="font-style: italic;"><br /></span>Ashleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09319607131924747506noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942535628309413600.post-81513107853352169942011-03-03T07:55:00.001-05:002011-03-03T07:55:00.313-05:00Scripture Memory BookletMy accountability partner, Shanna, and I meet each week to share with each other the ways that God is working in our lives and what He is teaching us. We discuss various topics each week, including goals we each have. One of our shared goals is Scripture memory, but we are not the best at getting verses memorized each week. One night, I had an idea and decided to make each of us Scripture memory booklets. <br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEitoBC4hN60kwxZTBRVUmI7cdi7TvE__u55ppR3GCQ1mynmbfD7tsvzv2q4NsX7l6cFCIYEWK5oiQaMcj8P5ew_FeWMWUP33rz_pk3jjOqBi-Mjvjf_WKxy8QyqpkO16ZQ_w8J_WGk8/s1600/memory+booklet1.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEitoBC4hN60kwxZTBRVUmI7cdi7TvE__u55ppR3GCQ1mynmbfD7tsvzv2q4NsX7l6cFCIYEWK5oiQaMcj8P5ew_FeWMWUP33rz_pk3jjOqBi-Mjvjf_WKxy8QyqpkO16ZQ_w8J_WGk8/s400/memory+booklet1.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5579324231180443138" border="0" /></a><br />I bought one of those spiral bound index card booklets at Walmart and pasted some scrapbook paper on the front in our favorite colors. That was it! It literally took me only a few minutes to make each one and they only cost $1.25 each (the cost of the booklet). <br /><br />Here is the final product!<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgQSxCKJth9wQE62H4f3bRcs4Tmvzy5OJweonCUbo2PEWpWlSPmR_2qLNt8fMuOcfXQ85tJAPmFhFwFGD2iFYFtejT84SQ6mCOf-7yvJH4qG9ffA47lkVU1MlULLtg4rPtqxnn32bpH/s1600/memory+booklet.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgQSxCKJth9wQE62H4f3bRcs4Tmvzy5OJweonCUbo2PEWpWlSPmR_2qLNt8fMuOcfXQ85tJAPmFhFwFGD2iFYFtejT84SQ6mCOf-7yvJH4qG9ffA47lkVU1MlULLtg4rPtqxnn32bpH/s400/memory+booklet.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5579324227011871874" border="0" /></a> Shanna loved her booklet and I love mine as well! I carry mine around in my purse so that I can just get it out and look over it. And, bonus, all of my memory verses will be in one place so I can easily review them.Ashleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09319607131924747506noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942535628309413600.post-84530839264163916062011-03-02T07:30:00.000-05:002011-03-02T07:30:00.302-05:00What I'm Learning Wednesday: WaitingIf you know me, you know that I am not married, but very much want to be. I struggle with this issue from time to time, and right now is one of those times. It is the greatest desire of my heart to be a wife and a mom. I get impatient and frustrated with this area of my life. <br /><br />For the most part, waiting stinks. I don't know anyone who really likes to wait. We live in a time where almost everything is available immediately so we really don't need to wait on anything. At all. In my wait in this area, I get frustrated, lonely, and sad. But the Lord is a great help in the process. He has our days in His hands and helps us keep our focus on Him as He shapes us into people who will honor and glorify Him with our lives. <br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;"></span>You see, the Lord has my days laid out. There is a purpose for my wait. I may not know what it is right now, but later on when I look back on this time in my life, I will (hopefully) have a better understanding of the reasons for this season in my life. I forget this fact a lot of times because of my own impatience and selfish desires. Unfortunately, I will probably forget it again. (NOTE: It is not that my desire to be married is selfish...it is the fact that I want to be married right now.)<br /><br />I am excited, though, to see how God brings this man into my life...it has got to be one crazy story! Above all, I pray that He is glorified through the story of my life. For today, though, I will do my best to '<span style="font-style: italic;">be still before the Lord and wait patiently for Him</span>.' (Psalm 37:7a)Ashleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09319607131924747506noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942535628309413600.post-9993437013993693902011-03-01T22:59:00.005-05:002011-03-01T23:17:31.485-05:00Question Mark Cookies<span style="font-style: italic;">I'm back! Sorry for the week-long hiatus. It has been a little crazy around here...sickness, busyness, etc. Here is one thing I've been working on!</span><br /><br />I am preparing to make some cookies for an upcoming wedding, so I immediately went to <a href="http://www.bakeat350.blogspot.com/">Bake at 350</a> and got some recipe ideas! I love Bridget's blog and all of the fun and creative cookies she makes!<br /><br />This past weekend I made a test batch. I tested out her <a href="http://bakeat350.blogspot.com/2010/07/frosted-jumbo-animal-cookies.html">Lemon Cut-Out</a> cookie recipe along with her <a href="http://bakeat350.blogspot.com/2008/04/taste-of-yellow-yellow-rose-sugar.html">Vanilla Almond Cut-Out</a> recipe. She also has some great tips for cookie beginners on making royal icing and cookies for decorating.<br /><br />I didn't want my test batch to go to waste, so I used the dough to make cookies for a mystery themed luncheon at church. I cut them out in the shape of an Easter egg, turned them upside down, and then drew a question mark on each of them with the icing. Half of the cookies were iced in red and the other half in black.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEie3XrJART3hoHJp4s998wkuFyQZ7711pJO54JTIN-AA2R4us8V4XZKpO9GtCjgGITVhrRG7XTjh3knE3SYt7Gw3sqPkWBluVqmFyuaPISuZiDe32N3FMw35PmfFebmM-wcTyXLeh0S/s1600/question+cookies1.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEie3XrJART3hoHJp4s998wkuFyQZ7711pJO54JTIN-AA2R4us8V4XZKpO9GtCjgGITVhrRG7XTjh3knE3SYt7Gw3sqPkWBluVqmFyuaPISuZiDe32N3FMw35PmfFebmM-wcTyXLeh0S/s400/question+cookies1.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5579329795384422930" border="0" /></a><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh3TrVuu_WoZ5I7tYfx-jMAQW2NPs_zCfp_7vSQbNp1TK4WTy4oBcRq8-HNJUj9lUjJEyqgphaaVmEq-SezLUzNtDjp_TcoPQHmOSZo9aXEaL1Ihq1NG4MRZo1FM_n_FSSTkjD9s7J7/s1600/question+cookies2.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh3TrVuu_WoZ5I7tYfx-jMAQW2NPs_zCfp_7vSQbNp1TK4WTy4oBcRq8-HNJUj9lUjJEyqgphaaVmEq-SezLUzNtDjp_TcoPQHmOSZo9aXEaL1Ihq1NG4MRZo1FM_n_FSSTkjD9s7J7/s400/question+cookies2.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5579329795703618146" border="0" /></a><br />Looking back, I wish I would have covered the entire cookie in white first and then drew the question mark on top. But I was very impressed with the taste of the cookies! The coloring of the icing, on the other hand, still needs some work. I got a different brand of food coloring to test out, so hopefully things will improve for the next batch! Do you have any suggestions for me on coloring royal icing? I need the icing to be red and navy blue.Ashleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09319607131924747506noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942535628309413600.post-67665544018329685092011-02-19T11:26:00.007-05:002011-02-22T08:12:18.685-05:00A Baby Shower GiftI am going to a baby shower on Tuesday night and wanted to make the mommy-to-be something special for her new little one. This is what I came up with:<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEibIrYQJhnP4HiSsqzrnLZRV32YBhLIR9NTmnwyBhIpH_JoGpOE4vGBomwXZa0K7MnWMeJ8m8c8aqvtPNoVHwDWsxgN6t3H70rAMiBYuHF2o2ekYIno763euAwu9ArwctuiB1eQx6Bl/s1600/onesie+wreath.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEibIrYQJhnP4HiSsqzrnLZRV32YBhLIR9NTmnwyBhIpH_JoGpOE4vGBomwXZa0K7MnWMeJ8m8c8aqvtPNoVHwDWsxgN6t3H70rAMiBYuHF2o2ekYIno763euAwu9ArwctuiB1eQx6Bl/s400/onesie+wreath.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5575455758771449490" border="0" /></a><br />A wreath made of onesies and socks! Perfect for a beautiful baby girl! And bonus, it was very simple to make! Here is what I did.<br /><br />I took some onesies and rolled them like I would roll fabric flowers. First, I laid the onesie out flat on the table, front side up,<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjrdkraRFOS0-HIYO6oPf5oMSD-NuOf6Nogoy40w7ByItcK5qgkbBnYQaXxvLNPXz0rkFCInuAy0elxg5kydEIQxgypRvhbfeQKxhgB2IVVQRB4HhbN-w_rga6xwEoRl7IX25C_P5Lu/s1600/IMG_0298.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 328px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjrdkraRFOS0-HIYO6oPf5oMSD-NuOf6Nogoy40w7ByItcK5qgkbBnYQaXxvLNPXz0rkFCInuAy0elxg5kydEIQxgypRvhbfeQKxhgB2IVVQRB4HhbN-w_rga6xwEoRl7IX25C_P5Lu/s400/IMG_0298.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5575442808389923906" border="0" /></a><br />folded the sides to the middle,<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhUhuSRFnAXd_xW_FIKjlwHPFhv3BTA1xJdBFoajXUYN9Ia8tRkbuh2HilGfHTaEW9wx4xdOLGw-jlXsSyanC30elyJBvCc0S9iLC4EdyZLFypTnThed_D2hEm9SfaLxE48KMZ41mmC/s1600/IMG_0299.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 312px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhUhuSRFnAXd_xW_FIKjlwHPFhv3BTA1xJdBFoajXUYN9Ia8tRkbuh2HilGfHTaEW9wx4xdOLGw-jlXsSyanC30elyJBvCc0S9iLC4EdyZLFypTnThed_D2hEm9SfaLxE48KMZ41mmC/s400/IMG_0299.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5575442809343152242" border="0" /></a><br />then folded it again.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgo0jVkfdlag2zn3EXd4iey1RRnh-OhVbztQmt55d9M6SezGdgxXpVpcifJZ4_VkK8prV8-mm47Enw3jcqDWWYF0cpZohlug1NQCxHvRhftDPpUT9jsgKA7kpZUZLKbWXdLT4HUXApX/s1600/IMG_0300.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 297px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgo0jVkfdlag2zn3EXd4iey1RRnh-OhVbztQmt55d9M6SezGdgxXpVpcifJZ4_VkK8prV8-mm47Enw3jcqDWWYF0cpZohlug1NQCxHvRhftDPpUT9jsgKA7kpZUZLKbWXdLT4HUXApX/s400/IMG_0300.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5575442813456861538" border="0" /></a><br />Then, I started at the neck end of the onesie and began rolling. I rolled it with the open end of the fold on top because I liked the way it ended when the flower was finished, but you can do whatever you like.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhflTv9ko0QVEMlW-RaldYhtrvpbbaaK_Bble-_2UzgJdbui7Sjx4dTDXcl8jmbvv0K7YEzG-1Lkxam7BGfeHFKXDj1wZEbKlp1NlQTMXu0ofn80F_FXHSxaCcXcdp0T433bVAnS0np/s1600/IMG_0301.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 360px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhflTv9ko0QVEMlW-RaldYhtrvpbbaaK_Bble-_2UzgJdbui7Sjx4dTDXcl8jmbvv0K7YEzG-1Lkxam7BGfeHFKXDj1wZEbKlp1NlQTMXu0ofn80F_FXHSxaCcXcdp0T433bVAnS0np/s400/IMG_0301.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5575442814954179042" border="0" /></a><br />Then, I twisted the onesie (twist toward the center of the flower) and kept rolling until I ran out of material. I got about three twists for each of the flowers. Then I simply pinned the fabric at the end and I was finished! See? Easy! Here are some more pictures of the rest of the process:<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhm3_FrMapSPSKNu-306PG4Fat-1v5mKMY5IYyNpacY-ss3vM2HihCT_n2-1dqCo1G4HQIGfPb2IjJYHZtTP1bBoXPrsc0ByIbqzcbTlaDo9rFgKzJLzQT_iXBTMireNokzFp9eaB8L/s1600/IMG_0302.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 393px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhm3_FrMapSPSKNu-306PG4Fat-1v5mKMY5IYyNpacY-ss3vM2HihCT_n2-1dqCo1G4HQIGfPb2IjJYHZtTP1bBoXPrsc0ByIbqzcbTlaDo9rFgKzJLzQT_iXBTMireNokzFp9eaB8L/s400/IMG_0302.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5575442818721420594" border="0" /></a><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhD-j10lFV5gRlBCfyMWzUORAlX29Ej8znjoPw_5JXP21m0vwR_9wXa2xxbUoGpKCeh59ZS-HmJuNzC4aN0e31AMLs45N1VAD09oBVPlcqVgWfksgAujQqepFpzrIS1ZxBGnW6WW3fj/s1600/IMG_0303.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 334px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhD-j10lFV5gRlBCfyMWzUORAlX29Ej8znjoPw_5JXP21m0vwR_9wXa2xxbUoGpKCeh59ZS-HmJuNzC4aN0e31AMLs45N1VAD09oBVPlcqVgWfksgAujQqepFpzrIS1ZxBGnW6WW3fj/s400/IMG_0303.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5575443309254348290" border="0" /></a><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgmT6nb7fllp1jkgmzLSJLwAgzZWAKQf9eNftIDzpCpgLVcBDxrwhV3UzqVzYXlFSRXiQ-VXq5Jgug-rKj7p5tp-NsW3CHw5exN8AZKTy8eEI0WSKH2xK2vAoLZx8D9S96V-WVocZI8/s1600/IMG_0304.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 363px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgmT6nb7fllp1jkgmzLSJLwAgzZWAKQf9eNftIDzpCpgLVcBDxrwhV3UzqVzYXlFSRXiQ-VXq5Jgug-rKj7p5tp-NsW3CHw5exN8AZKTy8eEI0WSKH2xK2vAoLZx8D9S96V-WVocZI8/s400/IMG_0304.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5575443308788117826" border="0" /></a><br />And the finished flower!<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj0uoaH2yHMQgOBFVDtkbuSqVOglUrKpOn_jVGzs6d6bvmNwvOFsRPOiW4eH-DUOYCbKbq4YZbg0ijRtYCigIRMOxWZ6CEDGrW2gRYiBpDMZhrCU6roOrRpV5D1_d8AMDPPPyMhcmBg/s1600/IMG_0305.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 381px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj0uoaH2yHMQgOBFVDtkbuSqVOglUrKpOn_jVGzs6d6bvmNwvOFsRPOiW4eH-DUOYCbKbq4YZbg0ijRtYCigIRMOxWZ6CEDGrW2gRYiBpDMZhrCU6roOrRpV5D1_d8AMDPPPyMhcmBg/s400/IMG_0305.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5575443316033810402" border="0" /></a><br />After that, I took a styrofoam wreath form, wrapped it in pretty pink ribbon, and pinned the flowers to the wreath. I used four pins for each flower to help hold each one in place. After that, I used cute little socks that I bunched up to look like rosettes and filled in holes. Two pins were used for each of the socks.<br /><br />To make the sock rosettes, I just unfolded the sock, ran both thumbs down to the toe, and then pulled everything together. The cuff of the sock holds the bunching in place and you can hide the pins in the middle of the socks when you attach them to the wreath. A close-up of the socks:<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEipsA0u_hUwGtbDadpfTA8MBxMfRnmoRSgjdKMk-eUc5QBsJRetmu7gL8ehyphenhyphenpw5Nm05zDcpzTaU0njwHxQTqkEoQ2Lyf-RUpg179ohEa3UxaXk7IgsSFEJHucQAkUDpbdTk27cO4dxc/s1600/socks.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEipsA0u_hUwGtbDadpfTA8MBxMfRnmoRSgjdKMk-eUc5QBsJRetmu7gL8ehyphenhyphenpw5Nm05zDcpzTaU0njwHxQTqkEoQ2Lyf-RUpg179ohEa3UxaXk7IgsSFEJHucQAkUDpbdTk27cO4dxc/s400/socks.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5575457097294577570" border="0" /></a><br />Here is another look at my finished present. I can't wait to give it to my friend at her shower!<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhm_p3uzlh5EV2IZs6X3zcSG7rzH8NUekNM0vNSLR_GDclzJAobSkLSvibxugNPAq1k9oNfVfFOs3JzlvIHtoZjnjxL7b528pidYzBdivYPeqVapUOQNhtWF6uUODoyjIcxpTqJhviG/s1600/IMG_0307.JPG"><br /></a><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjbrSuzgFlS5pELGp02M5n3xoie8gzkzYBGUxWl3felVGjWfrgKI0ulj6NyuW7BGzO6IKZdmJCIOPv9PXnOylUAcY3JtlY1NTraW51mNyh9b7-tUEJAl1M1Qfb7rIPbIKYYGovAUBVv/s1600/onesie+wreath.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjbrSuzgFlS5pELGp02M5n3xoie8gzkzYBGUxWl3felVGjWfrgKI0ulj6NyuW7BGzO6IKZdmJCIOPv9PXnOylUAcY3JtlY1NTraW51mNyh9b7-tUEJAl1M1Qfb7rIPbIKYYGovAUBVv/s400/onesie+wreath.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5575455757400004082" border="0" /></a><br /><br />I am linking this project to the following blogs:<br /><a href="http://tatertotsandjello.blogspot.com/2011/02/weekend-wrap-up-party-and-accessories.html"><br />Tatertots and Jello</a><br /><a href="http://www.whipperberry.com/2011/02/friday-flair-linky-party_17.html">WhipperBerry</a><br /><a href="http://www.tipjunkie.com/handmade-projects-add-yours-2/">Tip Junkie</a>Ashleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09319607131924747506noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942535628309413600.post-64692275279474475512011-02-16T22:18:00.004-05:002011-02-16T22:39:18.582-05:00What I'm Learning Wednesday: HealingFor the past several weeks, I have been listening to a song called "Healing is in Your Hands" by <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">Christy</span> <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">Nockels</span>. I get one song that I love and will listen to it on repeat for hours at a time! Anyway, I sang it at church this past Sunday and it just really made me think about the healing power of God. You can listen to the song below with the lyrics:<br /><br /><object style="height: 390px; width: 640px"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/410SevhBq38?version=3"><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"><param name="allowScriptAccess" value="always"><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/410SevhBq38?version=3" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" allowscriptaccess="always" width="640" height="390"></embed></object><br /><br />God loves us so much that nothing can ever separate us from Him if we are His children, His followers. Nothing will ever take us away from Him. It reminds me of one of my favorite verses in Scripture, 1 John 4:10. "This is love, it is not that we loved God but that He loved us and sent His son as a sacrifice to take away our sins."<br /><br />This song, as much as it is about the healing power of God and His awesome love for us, also makes me think about why we need healing in the first place. We easily get warm fuzzies if we just concentrate on how God heals us and how much He loves us. We don't like to think, though, about why He had to heal us. We need healing because of our sin. If sin had never entered the world, there would be no sickness, no pain, no mourning. Unfortunately, it did. We are sinful people. God broke His own heart by sending Jesus, His only Son, into the world to die for sinners like me. It is truly by His grace that we can stand, that we can even get out of bed in the morning.<br /><br />So with that, let us not forget to praise Him for His awesome healing power and his unending and unchanging love for us. But let us also not forget all the reasons we need that healing and that love. Let us consciously live in the shadow of His grace to us all. After all, He is all that matters.Ashleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09319607131924747506noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942535628309413600.post-17716405022018873832011-02-13T16:27:00.004-05:002011-02-13T17:01:24.057-05:00Jeweled LetterRecently, I saw a tutorial on <a href="http://www.tipjunkie.com/things-to-make-jewelry/">Tip Junkie</a> on how to make jeweled letters. I didn't think much of it until I found a box full of old pins from my aunt, grandmother and great-grandmother. Immediately when I saw them, I knew this is what I wanted to do with them! Here is the final result!<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh9FviH-sHbwrynP57h85WuaOZo756-Ih3kv16rz_mMoQKMtiFL9MZvKwPBZjcf-lgCWAm5a_1fwsPqUfDgFAXsh4plJdKTjNPKEMgi_JxZRHYU58ffvnz6ii6ClB0pXp6dNQNXqjxO/s1600/jeweled+letter2.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh9FviH-sHbwrynP57h85WuaOZo756-Ih3kv16rz_mMoQKMtiFL9MZvKwPBZjcf-lgCWAm5a_1fwsPqUfDgFAXsh4plJdKTjNPKEMgi_JxZRHYU58ffvnz6ii6ClB0pXp6dNQNXqjxO/s400/jeweled+letter2.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5573292644241671474" border="0" /></a><br /><br />Please ignore my reflection in the pictures. Here's what I did:<br /><br />1. I bought a wooden letter "A" and a shadowbox frame from Hobby Lobby. (I stuck with my first name initial because I want to be able to still display it after I get married, and you know there is a good chance I won't marry someone with a last name that begins with "F")<br />2. I painted the letter black.<br />3. I hot glued the jewelry to the letter and then attached it to the back of the shadowbox.<br /><br />That's it!<br /><br />I think it's a great way to display all of the pins and jewelry that were so dear to my grandmothers and aunt. Even though they aren't my style to wear, I love how they look when they are all put together! And it also jazzes up my decor! What could be better?!<br /><br />Here are some closeups of the finished product along with what it looks like on my dresser next to my favorite picture of my brother:<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjaCNV_vuiVQISQvZ9EbCbDZioQHQrrmj6KGPuu6z-w5ZWfoILdSAUhtJx_VW77uI8wvAeWhPrRj8B6Ph174U1KibR7cmfikPsMk1xOcvAzkMGUPRq8mWUuGEGCnuOFR7c8Bh5E2vUl/s1600/jeweled+letter4.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjaCNV_vuiVQISQvZ9EbCbDZioQHQrrmj6KGPuu6z-w5ZWfoILdSAUhtJx_VW77uI8wvAeWhPrRj8B6Ph174U1KibR7cmfikPsMk1xOcvAzkMGUPRq8mWUuGEGCnuOFR7c8Bh5E2vUl/s400/jeweled+letter4.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5573292655964317650" border="0" /></a><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgQO8b0t7uHjg4XSrTLrIc4Bx3ABn-wicMH5bE1-j_MWyf6qvYCgjEj_VZz9JRaudRJ3gZC7_g5IKU10wpX7bX5qFA8f9-Bwfr8SET_Fmw1gNDfi_fkNAnph2bFPtP0AGivu4IYhtLi/s1600/jeweled+letter3.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgQO8b0t7uHjg4XSrTLrIc4Bx3ABn-wicMH5bE1-j_MWyf6qvYCgjEj_VZz9JRaudRJ3gZC7_g5IKU10wpX7bX5qFA8f9-Bwfr8SET_Fmw1gNDfi_fkNAnph2bFPtP0AGivu4IYhtLi/s400/jeweled+letter3.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5573292651636347682" border="0" /></a><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgLag_I-g0_As2ZHf-98rCbV6GUJePGrPvGJ1J0NOpnaKQQI8_wvwBN22mfmaUFD4xWpzDgkkLIVMh1XdFV4BQLyBjZ-xV-fzTIz0iwazADz6XWIylqFBJg5DKrpfv_fk-ymYN2FQyt/s1600/jeweled+letter1.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgLag_I-g0_As2ZHf-98rCbV6GUJePGrPvGJ1J0NOpnaKQQI8_wvwBN22mfmaUFD4xWpzDgkkLIVMh1XdFV4BQLyBjZ-xV-fzTIz0iwazADz6XWIylqFBJg5DKrpfv_fk-ymYN2FQyt/s400/jeweled+letter1.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5573292642518192610" border="0" /></a><br /><br />PS: If you like what you see, follow my blog! Once I get to 25 followers, I will draw a name and give something away that I make especially for the winner. You could win!Ashleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09319607131924747506noreply@blogger.com15tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942535628309413600.post-28413690586497644112011-02-09T21:09:00.004-05:002011-02-09T21:39:21.203-05:00A Valentine's TreatI have a new obsession for making things. I like to blame, at least in part, my friend Sandra for her beginning influence in the world of homemade things. She has a blog, you see, and I love to read it. In her blog, she posts ideas she finds online along with other fun things that she makes. Also on her blog is a list of other blogs that she reads. This list is full of crafty people with wonderful ideas, most of which I would never even dream up if I tried. <br /><br />Now, at least partly because of her, I feel the need to make people things. Holidays, special occasions, and random gifts are now all about the newest ideas and how I can put my own spin on them. <br /><br />My latest project has been for a member of Refresh, my young women's group at church. We exchanged names and were responsible for sending our person a Valentine's card with some encouraging words enclosed. Of course, I wanted to make her something special, too. So last night, I worked with my friend Shanna to make something to make our "Refresh Valentine's Friends" feel loved this Valentine's Day. This is what we came up with:<br /><br /><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhRggKVxjOygAZN4dLwImhXN-w48Adje_iO4pveAuJN1c8_yCNcHQ8Ah3SwSXldfeBjsnc1VL6FcNnE9OYl0QmQdbTDQoyYaorAWyEQLoLd6dLuS11qTLVwAXsRxXm2X4O0thY8pz_R/s1600/hot+chocolate+on+a+stick.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhRggKVxjOygAZN4dLwImhXN-w48Adje_iO4pveAuJN1c8_yCNcHQ8Ah3SwSXldfeBjsnc1VL6FcNnE9OYl0QmQdbTDQoyYaorAWyEQLoLd6dLuS11qTLVwAXsRxXm2X4O0thY8pz_R/s400/hot+chocolate+on+a+stick.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5571878276144386082" border="0" /></a>Hot Chocolate on a Stick!<br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-style: italic;">(sorry about the bad lighting...this pic was taken with my cell phone)</span><br /></div><br />I found this idea from a blog called Whipperberry (you can find the recipe <a href="http://www.whipperberry.com/2010/12/hot-chocolate-on-stick-gift-idea.html">here</a>). This blog is great and has tons of ideas from event planning to recipes to gift ideas. <br /><br />Shanna and I had a wonderful time making these treats for our friends. We cut them up, stuck them in a treat bag, and tied them up with a ribbon! Shanna made some cute notes to include with the treats with instructions on how to make the hot chocolate, too. And, of course, we had to include some yummy marshmallows! One of these days I'm going to learn how to make homemade marshmallows...that candy thermometer is pretty intimidating. <br /><br />My Valentine's Friend loved her special treat! I even got a text message from her saying that the hot chocolate was yummy. That's why I love giving gifts...I love to help someone feel loved and appreciated. <br /><br />The best part about this treat idea is that it makes TONS of treats! We had lots of leftovers to share with family and friends (and some to enjoy ourselves!). We even mailed some to a mutual friend. <br /><br />How about you? Are you doing anything special for someone this Valentine's Day?Ashleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09319607131924747506noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942535628309413600.post-35015312435590453142011-02-09T20:33:00.003-05:002011-02-09T21:03:55.510-05:00What I'm Learning Wednesday: FaithfulnessWell, I have a confession to make. I have not done well in spending concentrated time with the Lord this week. I haven't been reading and I haven't been praying like I should. So, with this confession comes a resolution to do better next week. I hated to tell my accountability partner that yesterday at our weekly meeting. Next week will not be the case, though!<br /><br />Okay, with my confession, I still need to tell you what I'm learning! Aren't you just chomping at the bit to find out?! In Sunday School this past week, we had a wonderful lesson on Hosea, which gets to me every time I read it. If you aren't familiar with the story, Hosea is called by God to marry a prostitute, someone he knew would be unfaithful to him. Later on in the story, Hosea had to go and buy his wife back from a sex slave trade. Can you imagine?! (That is the very, <span style="font-style: italic;">very </span>short version of the story...there are lots more details I am leaving out)<br /><br />Above all else, this story always reminds me of the faithfulness of God. He created us knowing the heartbreak that awaited Him. He chose to have a relationship with us, even though He knew we would be unfaithful to Him. He longs for closeness to us when He knows we are going to push Him away with our thoughts and actions. I have been doing just that. I have been unfaithful to Him with my thoughts and actions because I have not spent the necessary time investing in our relationship. He is faithful, though, when I am unfaithful. <br /><br />Even though He remains faithful to me, this does not give me an excuse to remain unfaithful to Him. If I truly want to exemplify Christ through my life, I have to put in the work to know who He is and what He expects of me. I hope you will do the same. Remember He is faithful. He is constant. And He longs to be close to you.Ashleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09319607131924747506noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7942535628309413600.post-6073465635800220682011-02-05T10:37:00.005-05:002011-02-05T10:51:00.217-05:00Cardboard Crafting: Finally Finished!Whew! It's been a long week of working on my cardboard project, but it is finally finished!<br /><br />It went from this:<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjb7P0_7sIjb8XhJi8sNlVdU8RWxCPD72iMulssqU8dnWdV7QUfPqeh9n0vEmHJnJPQBfIWbo-ovgFtacuuDg3xjLcOloZCRxxfEXhZJFkjrW4beLsp0_n9A-cO3z_NW3fUdQ2hiYuK/s1600/boxes.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjb7P0_7sIjb8XhJi8sNlVdU8RWxCPD72iMulssqU8dnWdV7QUfPqeh9n0vEmHJnJPQBfIWbo-ovgFtacuuDg3xjLcOloZCRxxfEXhZJFkjrW4beLsp0_n9A-cO3z_NW3fUdQ2hiYuK/s400/boxes.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5570230482709290258" border="0" /></a><br /><br />To this!<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiXR6YDuidRNs4nX7XM0FKy8KucAQ1CtaQvXPXvQ2JwHRAo0f4y1oSeZBP0a3pwLVnn_PX6EBa6k0eMcqusLYaw2rELpMrwcGKGmx-dikG8HWyC_ZwnIo8h1IjglG5KcEqAoWg8aBIv/s1600/dump+truck+side.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiXR6YDuidRNs4nX7XM0FKy8KucAQ1CtaQvXPXvQ2JwHRAo0f4y1oSeZBP0a3pwLVnn_PX6EBa6k0eMcqusLYaw2rELpMrwcGKGmx-dikG8HWyC_ZwnIo8h1IjglG5KcEqAoWg8aBIv/s400/dump+truck+side.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5570230881396725586" border="0" /></a><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiZ5joOvRdHhpsDLsqRsZduSM7M81J59QjfHUR3GR_lcSzFaXFzIUEEyVhLbyldURKH0M2f-p-yEQT1pcAcjq5dGW60nGxD6CounRu31ZDpe09bbi0Abe5DArxHAoyH8rbG81TQliZZ/s1600/dump+truck+front.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiZ5joOvRdHhpsDLsqRsZduSM7M81J59QjfHUR3GR_lcSzFaXFzIUEEyVhLbyldURKH0M2f-p-yEQT1pcAcjq5dGW60nGxD6CounRu31ZDpe09bbi0Abe5DArxHAoyH8rbG81TQliZZ/s400/dump+truck+front.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5570230879184004866" border="0" /></a><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhJbVkI0Alooibs9FPEwSEw8TGDpENHWK20Sp2yVyvIALCYtKELyYEecWGbvCtFdFI92Rr3uWdN283iXvEbsehKGAFsRnsqkU_3x43ohLqk_JJy1nTIDX00Cgqo4ewnkdnYj0nP9yhV/s1600/dump+truck+back.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhJbVkI0Alooibs9FPEwSEw8TGDpENHWK20Sp2yVyvIALCYtKELyYEecWGbvCtFdFI92Rr3uWdN283iXvEbsehKGAFsRnsqkU_3x43ohLqk_JJy1nTIDX00Cgqo4ewnkdnYj0nP9yhV/s400/dump+truck+back.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5570230871511137458" border="0" /></a><br /><br />I made this dump truck for my cousin who will turn four on Monday. He is one of my favorite kids in the whole world! The truck is almost as tall as him! His birthday party has a construction theme and he got a preview of the truck last night as we were decorating for the party. He loves it!! I made 'rocks' out of wadded up newspaper, but he just calls it trash. That's okay by me...as long as he liked it. The back end also lifts up so he can dump the rocks, or trash, out of it. Anything became trash last night...even my shoes! It was a big hit!Ashleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09319607131924747506noreply@blogger.com8